Tuesday, February 04, 2014

Reunite with Relatives, Drink Tea, Eat Lunch, Repeat



When I told friends I was going to spend time in Fujian, I heard, "you're going to drink lots of tea!"  And...they were right!  Here's your typical tea set.  Tea is brewed in the covered bowl, then poured into the taller bowl with the spout and then distributed into the smaller cups for distribution.  The second your cup is empty, it's filled.

The second day after the New Year's is the day to visit family.  We got our start early on the night of New Year's.  Here we are visiting with one of Onions' cousins (the female on the left) at her tea shop.

Kids EVERYWHERE are drawn to the iPhone!

The next day, we drive into the hills of Anxi County.....the home and heartland of Oolong tea.


The goal of the day is to visit many of Onions' Mom's family in the mountains where she grew up.  Our ultimate goal is to get to Grandma's house.  Here we are at the first stop, an older sister's house.  I had yet to figure out how the day was going to work.  We sat for tea, then ate lunch. Little did I know this was to the be the first of FOUR lunches.  I didn't pace myself well and ate myself full at the first stop.


So in the 1970's Onions Dad, as part of a program to help the rural areas, was sent from the city to work at this tea factory in the Anxi area.  It was while he was here in the area that he met Onions Mom.

The family lived in the dorms of the factory until Onions was 4.  Even after he moved to the city, Onions would come up here every summer and hang out in the country with family and friends.

Stop 2.  Onions Mom's youngest sister and her husband, who live in the house on the left.


The other two houses belong to the younger brothers of the wife's husband.  You'll see the tea set up in all the homes.  So it turns out that these families don't live here but all work in the big cities along the coast, such as Quanzhou, Fuzhou and Shenzhen.  The big deal about Spring Festival is that everyone comes back to their homes and gets to see each other!

One of the favorite people I met all day was the youngest sister's husband.  Very chill and open to conversation.

Tea with the husband's middle brother.

Then five minutes later with the youngest brother.

Then lunch number 2.


Quick stop for tea with on of the older sisters (far right).

Then it was up farther into the mountains to visit more relatives.

A drive up a steep hill (of which they all used to have to walk) we ended up in a high mountain valley where Onions mom and her family grew up.  Two brothers live in the white house farthest up the hill and a house that you see the side of to the right of that house next to the trees.

Tea at the home of the youngest brother, who lives in Shenzhen.

Lunch Number 3.

Lunch with a view

Tea with another brother.

And then it was time to go to Grandma's house, which is pictured, tucked back up against the hillside.

Onions and his Mom.

The entire family grew up in this home, which is on the walk up to Grandma's house.  It now sits empty but is apparently given to one of the brothers.


GRANDMA!  88 years old and lives on her own.

Raises her own animals to eat and plants her own vegetables.

Onions Mom, Grandma and Onions.

Time for lunch number 4.


One of the sisters took some of her Mom's vegetables.


Funniest scene of the day.  The youngest son came over to go refill the Grandma's propane tank.  She comes out with food to give him.  He reverts to being a kid and exclaims he doesn't want it.  It was funny to see how he went back and inhabited his teenage self.  I probably do the same.

He left with the food!  Like he ever even had any other choice.

Time for us all to leave the mountain and we all paraded down to the cars.

Sunset on a crazy day of tea, food and relatives.  It was totally a Chinese cultural day.

Monday, February 03, 2014

春节 in Quanzhou

The Lunar New Year Festival is a HUGE event in China.  Onions invited me to spend four days with him and his family in the Fujian province city of Quanzhou.  Here's the entrance to his building, which is way in the back at the end.  You can see his Dad in the 2nd floor window!

Onions Dad has a slew of brothers and sisters and many of them live in the building.  Everyone in his building is related and the cousins, aunts and uncles (from his father's side) were in and out all weekend.  On the first floor, there is a shrine to the elders who have passed.

In the next few years, Onions' family's building is slated for rebuilding to look more modern, such as these across the street.

In his neighborhood, there are even the original homes such as this one.

After the first night with the family, Onions and I took the bus out to the beach.  Quanzhou was the largest port during the Tang and Song Dynasty's (around 900-1300) Quanzhou was the largest port in the world.  Here's the wall the keep the foreigners out!



Zhengchen Gong, who successfully retook Taiwan.



Onions doesn't like direct sun.

So, here's a cool geographic marker in Quanzhou.

On the far side of the rocks, the East China Sea.  Closer to us, the South China Sea! 

We found a nice spot on the beach away from other people.  An amazing feat in China!

Onions' family lives in the HEART of old Quanzhou.  Here's some of the original European architecture.

The west pagoda of the Kaiyuan Temple.

"Little Chester"


Onions' Family



Laozi, the founder of the Daoism.


Being a port city, seafood is everywhere!  Oysters.  Turns out the small ones are tastier,

Turns out here in Quanzhou, they eat "zhongzhi" with sweet peanut sauce.  I approve!

We got to visit with some of Onions' friends.  Here he is with his best childhood friend and the friend's father!

44

January 29th, 2014...my 44th Birthday.  The day was also the last day of work before the Lunar New Year's Festival!  Kind of like having your birthday just before Christmas Break.   Everyone is thinking about their holidays.

The school purchases a cake for everyone, which I carried around all afternoon until Onions opened it up.  Oreo cheesecake.

Where did we celebrate?  Well, we started out at Pizza Hut......with dessert.

But then had actual dinner, which was going to be Beijing Duck, but we went with the duck bones!  Nice to have time with Onions on my birthday.

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Happiness Is A Morning Bike Ride

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My arm span not being wide enough to keep my bike upright and lift the free-swinging end of the parallel slabs of wood that served as Ettore’s (the German Shepherd) barrier to the free world, I would have to roll my bike beyond the radius of the gate and then speedily lean my bike against the large car garage door and close the gate.  The gate, attached to the side of the sliding wooden door, which allowed cars to drive in and out, was perched at the top of a short, but steep incline.  It was from this high elevation I would swing my leg over, push down on my right pedal and coast down the hill to Strada Buon Respiro, the Street of Good Air. My years in Italy were as wonderful as you can imagine, but it’s the small things that make memories and for me it was the daily bike ride to school.

During my second year in Viterbo, I lived with the Fabi/Turchetti family on a 14-acre farm that had olive and cherry trees. Located on a ridge south of Viterbo, I would ride my bike to and from school every day, well, at least in the fall and spring. As my bike hit the intersection of the inclined driveway at the end of a hairpin turn on Strada Buon Respiro, I would point my bike, already moving at a fast clip without having expended any energy, towards the right fork of the hairpin turn and coast along the single-lane road that gently curved to the right. The cold morning air in my face was an added bonus sensation to what I saw on my a right, a hillside of knarled trees, with branches that hung over the wire fences and created long tree tunnel. Also vying for my attention, the vista on my left was down into the basin in which the town of Viterbo lay, with it’s stone buildings and towers.

After 20 seconds of coasting, I would start the gentle uphill ride of one and a half kilometers to the intersection Buon Respiro and Strada Sammartinese. The incline required pedaling just enough to get my blood pumping but not to sweat, I would feel a rush of happiness at how lucky I was to be in that exact moment. Every day, I would not think about the events of the day or but be present with what I was seeing, the sensations of my legs going up and down and most importantly, I would feel the emotion of happiness and pure joy of biking in the Italian countryside. Even now, in my mind I picture myself from a birds-eye view and see myself winding my way along the sinuous turns of Strada Buon Respiro and it seems like a movie, but I can conjure up those feelings in an instant and I am transported back to those moments of joy and contentment.

Here in Beijing, the bike commute is different. Instead of a country road, I bike down a “hutong,” essentially an alleyway. The ride lasts two minutes at most. Instead of the sensation and beauty of that Italian bike ride, what makes me happy about my morning ride here could not be any more different. The ride begins with myself riding as slowing as possible to allow for my boyfriend to get astride the bike and seat himself on the padded cushion that has been installed above the back wheel. I actually don’t know how he mounts the bike, but I know that when the bike jolts a bit forward and my downward moving leg meets resistance, that “Onions” is ready for our morning commute out my complex’s parking lot and down the hutong to the main intersection. The next thing that happens as I gain speed is that he puts his hands in my coat pocket because he knows I’ve left them open and then promptly zips them up. Now the hutong itself is as the Italian’s say, a “casino.” Cars are parked on both sides leaving enough room for one car to drive. But cars come both ways and often times one finds two cars facing each other with a kind pedestrian orchestrating the dance of finding the geometric angles so the two cars can find a way to pass each other. When this occurs, our two-on-one bike riding comes to an end and “Onions” has to dismount and I walk my bike as he walks beside me to our destination. However, there are those great days, where we turn into the hutong and it’s smooth sailing. No cars, no honking, and way in the distance I can see the buses on the large street through the gap between the buildings at the end of the hutong. On these days, I pump my legs as hard as I can to take advantage of the unobstructed pavement in front of me and for a minute and having the leg workout of my day. As we near the end, I slow down again, “Onions” (however he does it), hops off the back of the bike and gives me a push. He peels off to the right to catch his bus and I turn left to go to school. The happiness comes from the bike ride itself, but the joy of having someone in your life in which there is routine. The joy also comes from having that unobstructed ride down the hutong.

Happiness through something as simple as a bike morning bike ride to work. I take pride in the fact that this simple thing in life gives me such great pleasure.

Sunday, January 19, 2014

发票 "Fa Piao" Winner!!

In China, when you pay your bill, you are asked if you want to "开发票" (kai fa piao) which is to have the restaurant issue you an official receipt on which they will have to report the income.  If you don't they can just pocket the money and not pay the taxes.  So, the government, to create incentive for you to wait the extra few minutes for the "fa piao" makes it into a lottery, where you can win money.


Usually, you get "谢谢" the equivalent of "thanks for playing."  But today, Onions asked for the "发票" and I won 50 RMB!!!


The LOOT!!!


Chinese Character Writing National Championships

I was flipping through the channels this weekend and saw this young woman (in her traditional minority dress) on TV and stopped long enough to realize that I was watching......

.....the Chinese equivalent of the National Spelling Bee, but in this case, a character writing competition.   It works much the same way as in the States, except instead of being an individual competition, it's groups of 5 students from provinces all across the country competing as a team.  Here, we have the announcer giving the word and then the definitions of each word or word in the the word set (up to four characters).

The student has one minute to write the characters.  Everyone in the audience (Onions next to me as well) is writing the words with their fingers on their hands.  Ooohh, the intensity....

The final four province teams were Yunnan (here with their minority dress), Shaanxi, Hunan and Inner Mongolia.

A proud mother (or teacher).

Split screen...."no no...it's the other radical!!!"

Final answer.....submitted!

And the judges turn on their lights to signal the correct character!!!  The team from Hunan province won.  But the one final student from Inner Mongolia put up a brave fight as it was her on her own against all five remaining students from Hunan.